yourbigsisnissi:

More important than asking “why doesn’t this person want me?” Is asking “why am I attracted to someone who isn’t interested in me and doesn’t value me?”

Crying because I need a freakin job already and I’ve had 3 months to bump up my resume with anything (free classes, online tutorials, etc) and I haven’t done shit.

builtfjordtuff:

sunnyaalisse:

fun fact: procrastination happens to animals too. it’s a naturall thing.

animal equivalents for scrolling tumblr include:
 - hamsters starting to wash their faces in inaproppriate situations
 - hyenas stopping everything and starting to dig holes in the ground.
 - seagulls starting to ruffle their feathers instead of doing important things

this happens for two reasons: 

1) an animal is in the situation where none of the standard scenarious it has are fitting, so it does the next best thing 
(example: hamsters were put in a vibrating bowl, they couldn’t run or attack, so in about a minute they stopped everything and started washing their faces.)

2) an animal has two conflicting instincts fighting for dominance, so the third one, usualy suppressed by them, kicks in.
(example: when two hyenas meet at the border of their territories, they have an instinct to protect their own territory conflict with an instinct not to cross someone else’s. they don’t know if they need to attack or leave, so both start digging holes in the ground.
example: a seagull sitting on the nest needs to protect her children, but also has to go get some food. instead a seagull settles for ruffling her feathers for two hours.)

with humans it’s usually the second reason.
(example: I’m tired and I want to go to sleep, but I should write an essay for tomorrow. both these things are important, so I’m procrastinating them by writing this post.)

nature is beautiful.
I’m gonna go to sleep now.

Honestly, digging holes in the ground to avoid dealing with a confrontation sounds like something I would do.

How to choose the right job… I’m waiting to hear back from 2 places. Firm A I already interned at and while I enjoyed my boss and everything I learned, I don’t think I’m ready for the work load (not sure why they asked me back anyway). Firm B sounds awesome, great pay & benefits, and training included, 10 mins from my house… but again, the work load. 3 attorneys. I could just barely manage 1 as an intern. Just got off the phone with a 3rd firm that actually sounds really great (and I think I pretty much had it in the bag) and would give me a ton of experience I desperately need, ability to promote, great benefits, but easily $10k less than Firm B… I think the answer is clear but I don’t want to limit myself because I’m scared. Is it fear or just owning up to the fact that I’m not ready to be a full-time paralegal just yet?

paralegalife:

oddishtea:

untexting:

Isn’t it weird how we basically have an endless mental conversation with ourselves?

Ya she needs to shut up

shfqhomr:

humans are so Loud and for What

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